I don't pick up guys in bars, I go to swingers clubs and parties.
I prefer events that actually allow single men to attend. I love the variety.
I go as a single lady, but am very honest about having a husband at home.
Going to swingers events as a single lady is, well, let's just say ... I'm VERY popular!
I've always had some very wild private fantasies, but being able to actually act them out has been ... Fan-fucking-tastic!